When you imagine “senior living,” what comes to mind? If your brain instantly flashes to sterile hallways, regimented schedules or the idea that it’s only for people who need help, you’re not alone—but you’re also not correct.
The truth about nursing homes, assisted living and independent living communities is far more inspiring than the myths or misconceptions suggest. In fact, for many older adults, senior living is less about giving something up and more about gaining a lifestyle filled with connection, opportunity and peace of mind.
Let’s bust five of the most common myths about senior living—and, in the process, show what makes life at The Carrington at Lincolnwood an inspired and fulfilling way to live.
Myth #1: “I don’t need a nursing home.”
Let’s clear something up immediately: Independent living at The Carrington is not a nursing home. And it’s certainly not an institution. It’s a vibrant, active community where you can live however you want without home maintenance. Many residents say they feel more independent since moving here because they’re freed from the day-to-day tasks that used to weigh them down.
With access to higher levels of care, such as assisted living and memory care, under the same roof, you don’t have to worry if your needs—or your spouse’s needs—change. That kind of built-in support system doesn’t take away your independence. It helps protect it.
Myth #2: “I’m too young.”
If you’re healthy, active and loving life, now is the perfect time to move. Why wait until something forces your hand? The Carrington offers the freedom to enjoy your time however you choose—minus the yard work, home repairs and what-ifs. You can join a club, take a class, share a glass of wine with friends or relax in your beautifully designed apartment home. It’s your time. Why not spend it doing more of what you love?
Resident Trudy Schragal felt it immediately: “I knew The Carrington was different the first time I walked in and looked at the apartment and said, ‘Wow, this is nice!’ There was a feeling you get when you walk in; it’s something that happens whenever you know you’re in the right spot. I’ve made great friends here. Picking The Carrington is one of the best decisions I’ve made in my mature adulthood.”
Myth #3: “I don’t want someone telling me how to spend my day.”
Great—because no one is! The empowered resident culture at The Carrington is built on choice. You decide what your day looks like. Love fitness? Try out a new class in our state-of-the-art fitness center. More of a reader? Cozy up in a quiet spot. Social butterfly? There’s always something going on, from cultural events to casual gatherings. As Trudy says, “The activities here aren’t just good—they’re unbelievably good. This is a place that celebrates who you are, not a place that tries to change you.”
Myth #4: “All my wealth will be tied up in a community entrance fee.”
This one comes up a lot—and here’s the truth: The Carrington is a rental community, which means there’s no hefty upfront fee or long-term financial commitment. You make a simple monthly payment, and your assets remain flexible and available. (Current monthly rent for independent living starts around $4,575.) It’s a smart option for those who value control over their finances and don’t want their wealth locked up in an entry fee.
Myth #5: “It will feel like a hospital.”
This one couldn’t be further from the truth. The Carrington was thoughtfully designed to look and feel like a high-end residence—not an institution. From stylish apartments to welcoming common spaces, the environment is warm, modern and comfortable. Nothing about life here feels clinical. It feels like a place you’d choose to live, regardless of your age.
Setting the Record Straight
Life in a nursing home may have once meant something different, but today’s senior living communities have evolved. When you look beyond the myths and dig into the facts about senior living communities, a clearer picture emerges: This stage of life isn’t about limitations. It’s about possibilities.
At The Carrington, you’ll find all the comfort, flexibility, connection and support you want—without giving up what matters most. To debunk more myths about senior living, explore our independent lifestyle.
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